Mission Statement

Relationships. You see them all over social media, while you walk down the streets, and even in your school hallways. They’re everywhere. Many people who aren’t in one, many times wish they were because they seem great. And yea, it’s great to have companionship and feel like you always have someone that you can rely on, but what images won’t tell you is the truth. Relationships suck.

Really, they do. In my blog, I will discuss the many difficulties that may come across a relationship, and how these difficulties can negatively impact, not only the relationship, but yourself as an individual. In reality, a relationship almost forces you to lose sight of your own individuality as you begin to think and do things, not only for you, but for your partner as well.

I blog to give young people a warning. Don’t do it. Don’t fall in love. At times, the pain you feel is almost unbearable. But then you think, “I’m still young, I have a whole life ahead of me” , and still that’s not enough to cause you happiness. It’s difficult, and in reality, it’s extra weight on your shoulders.

I don’t blog to discourage anyone from experiencing love. In fact, I write because if you do fall for someone, or see potential in someone, you should be aware of the severe consequences and difficulties that tag along with it. I wish I would have had advice years back when I first met my high school sweetheart.

My blog will be full of warnings. Relationships aren’t sweet. They’re not. They hurt. You’ll cry. There’s many things that a social media post won’t show. Trust me, I speak from experience. You may believe that two people are happy together, but in reality comfort is what helps maintain most relationships. Not love, and that’s truly sad.

Furthermore, every week, I will post an issue in a relationship and describe first hand how each has made me feel. Throughout my posts, I feel like many people who have been in relationships will relate to. I say this because although not every relationship is the same, most relationships will experience these issues. No matter how hard you try to maintain a relationship in a stable and loving manner, sooner or later, most will fall.

It’s the sad truth

Of course , it’s definitely hard to accept the fact that one will never find real happiness with love. Many young kids look forward to their wedding days, and what a beautiful day that must be for two people who love each other. However, growing up and experiencing the reality of the world, those dreams slowly start to deter.

It’s better to know, than to not know. I hope my blog can help people understand, that it’s okay to be alone because most relationships are no good. I also hope that it helps people that have experienced heartbreak as it may comforting to know that other people can relate to the way you feel.

I look forward to hearing stories from my own audience similar to my experiences. I want others to understand that it’s okay to feel broken because of love. But I hope my blog can help you think in a different way. It’s better to feel lonely, than to be stuck in an unhappy and toxic relationship.

Follow along, you should be aware of what you’re getting yourself into.